your marriage is heading for divorce how would you settle property,child custody,divorce costs.
how i would do if my marriage was heading for divorce and if i had any kids. I would try to work things out if i could have the kids and a few days and nights a week. I would pay child support if I had to. I would move out and let her have the house. and for the divorce cost i would have to pay it.
your a single dad.
i would work two jobs if needed i would live in a apartment.and for the emotionally i will have to get over myself i hopefully find some one better.
Your elderly parents to move in with you. what the conflicts and adjustments will arise.
if it was me i would not let my elderly parents move in with me because two family's don't work out in one house. if i did let them move in with me i would have to do every thing for them like shopping, taking a bath things on those lines. if i had kids they would try to tell me how to raise my kids.
you just remarried
if i just got remarried my wife will be able to discipline my kids if they are doing something wrong. how will the chores be done every one pick up after themselves,every one helps pick up the house,if you make the mess you pick it up. i will let my wife decide on if she wont my kids to call her mom or by her real name.where should me live me and my wife will compromise that one out. how will i divide physical space is if she got to tell me when is to much.
I know this couple they been married for 50 years i ask them what has made your relationship last as long as did has and he said got you to have good communication with each other, have a strong foundation, got to explore find and try new things to do with each other, listen to each other feelings he said find new ways to deal with conflict.
I also asked his wife the same thing she also said what he said she added marry your best friend. she said to listen to every thing that the other person have to say. also focus on one thing when talking. agree to disagree.
